The conversation caused tension between the bride and her maid of honour (Picture: Getty)We all know the rule if someone is getting married – don’t upstage the bride.
It is her big day and it’s important to respect that.
But one bride might have taken that idea too far, by asking her maid of honour to delay her boob job because she wants ‘to be the hottest one in the bridal party’.
The maid of honour says she has been planning and saving for the operation for a long time and now seems like the perfect time.
The surgery is set for the end of this month, with the wedding falling in September, giving her lots of time to recover.
But it’s the idea that her new boobs might ‘overshadow’ the bride on her big day that her friend is worried about.
In a post on Reddit, the maid of honour explained: ‘I’ve dreamed of it for a long time and I finally got a chance and money to do it.
‘Apparently, my best friend isn’t very happy about it.
‘So far everything has been going good, but yesterday she asked me whether I would consider doing it after her wedding.
‘I was surprised, because she knows it’s perfect timing for me and there are many reasons behind it. I was curious why she asked that.
‘She said she wants to be the hottest one in her wedding party and I may overshadow her with my new boobs.
The bride said she didn’t want the maid of honour to have the operation (Picture: Getty Images)‘I said if it bothers her so much, I will wear something not revealing and will not flash my boobs in front of everyone. She looked hurt and heartbroken, said a cold goodbye and left.’
The maid of honour said the whole conversation had left her confused about what to do.
She added: ‘I don’t want to and can’t change my date, but I feel upset about the whole situation. Some things start making sense.
‘She didn’t include our other best friend who is hellishly hot in her wedding party and we both were shocked about it, but didn’t question it much. Her wedding, her decisions.
‘Instead, she picked her future sister-in-laws as bridesmaids, who are twins and quite chubby. They are very sweet ladies but the bride called them land whales behind their back once and I told her it’s not very nice.
‘So, she picked people she thinks are less sexy than her and somehow I ended up on this list. She doesn’t want me to get hotter either. I don’t know how to feel.’
Most people agreed that the bride was in the wrong here.
One said: ‘I would feel… Tempted to tell her to find another maid of honor. If she’s that f*cking shallow and indifferent to your life she’s not worth your time.’
Another added: ‘Are you sure this girl is your friend? I mean, she doesn’t want you to do something that will make you happy, and on top of that, she clearly thinks you are not pretty enough.’
The maid of honour said that they have been friends since kindergarten and they’ve been through a lot together but added that she was hurt by the comments and has decided she’s going through with the surgery no matter what her friend says.
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