My marriage to Maje has not changed me- Toke Makinwa

February 17, 2015 2:34 am

has opened up on her marriage to Maje..What she cherishes most about him and what has changed..Sh told Encomium 

On her marriage being a year old?

It is like closing your eyes and opening them, that’s how it feels
clocking one.  We woke up one morning and realized that it is a year
already.  It is really unbelievable.  We have been through a lot.  If
you are married, you will understand the first year is the most
difficult time in marriage.  We have had our own fair share, but we
somehow pulled it together.  That is why we are still here.

The greatest thing about being married

Having a constant friend, 24/7.  You always have someone to talk to, you
are never out of conversation.  I hope we never get out of
conversation.  You always have someone with you walking through the
earth.  You have the assurance that you are not alone but there is
someone you pray with, play with and hold on to

What actually happened?  It seems you deceived people that you were
not getting married to your husband again and before we knew it, you
were married to him?

We have passed that now.  We are two people trying to find our way
around life.  Sometimes you are happy, sometimes you are not.  I think
it was because I was a public figure that was why it went far like that.
 A lot of people go through it, they break up to make up.  Boyfriend
and girlfriend break up and still come together.  Husband and wife
fight.  There was no deceit.  We are now together, we have been together
for a year.

What do you cherish most about him?

We are different. He is the calm one, he is a bit quiet.  If anyone
wants to take advantage of anyone of us, there is always that voice of
reasoning that will calm things down and when I feel he is keeping too
quiet, I voice out.  It is a mix.  I think that is exactly how God
fashion things.

What has changed about you since you got married?

I don’t think anything has changed, nothing has changed.  I don’t think I
really have to answer that question, people that know me should do so.

When are you starting a family?

When God says it is time.

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